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at 26 Jul 2009: 00:32

I wanna find a mate because i lost my last one because he died. I wanna know if there's a place i could go online to find a new mate. My fursona is a snow white wolf named Reno. I also would like to hear any stories about other furries finding their own mates. Plz post!

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at 26 Jul 2009: 01:09

sorry bout your loss.


The internet is a terrible place to start looking for a new mate,

I place to start is at bar or a get together with friends who bought along more friends, start talking to them and if there is some ground of things you have in common and see where it takes you.


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at 26 Jul 2009: 01:37

Bars are horrible places to meet people who aren't sluts.

Go join a club for some activity you're interested in and meet people there.

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at 26 Jul 2009: 03:47

Some SERIOUS advice:

First: You don't look for a "mate", you are human (or Australian, then I apologize :D).
Second: Find your partner outside this fucked up fandom.
Third: Don't do so on the internet but in real life. Join a workshop or club in something you're interested in BESIDES furry.

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at 26 Jul 2009: 04:12

>>4

This person speaks the truth.  Heed his words.

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at 26 Jul 2009: 05:15

Is it bad that I took "he died" as "I killed him"? Too much GUROchan for me.

Seriously though, take 4's advice.

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guyman at 26 Jul 2009: 22:24

shevita shevita uhn con coota!

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at 26 Jul 2009: 23:12

Look this is a fandom thread so please dont post unless u have comments to make like #'s 2-3, other wise no trolls plz.

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at 26 Jul 2009: 23:21

>>4

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at 28 Jul 2009: 19:40

seriously apply the crazy filter right off the bat - ask a but load of questions, find out who their friends are, talk to their friends to see what they are like etc.  then be prepared for value added quirks " hey hun I have something i have been hding from you... I dident actually break up with my boyfriend before i came to this con it was a game,,, I secretly like to make out with fido,,, etc etc - the same hazards you face in the regular dating game just magnified through the weird lenz of furry.
and after that - if you are very very brave. pounced.org is one place.    also for gods sake be smart enough to walk away from something that is not right for you.

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at 28 Jul 2009: 22:11

>>10

That works for some, but most of the time that's not the best way to try and get to know someone. You're coming off too strong there, and for most people, that /will/ make them uncomfortable. It's also kind of stalker-ish to a lot of people. Definitely not the best way to go about it.

>>4

Pretty close to the truth.

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at 29 Jul 2009: 07:02

You might try pounced, though I've yet to see any girls on there worth my time.

Also be prepared to be used.  It happens a lot, especially with people who are on the rebound...  There are some girls in the fandom who just like to use and abuse people like it is some kind of game.  It happened to me, but thankfully she showed her true colors before any sex was involved.  God knows what she was carrying if she bounces around the way she did.

Also, depending on how long ago "they died" (this part creeps me a bit for some reason) you might need to wait a while before trying too.  No one wants to date someone who is still in mourning, and no one wants to date someone who says oh well and rushes off for a new mate the minute the old one is gone.  Not saying you fit into those categories, but I was a little unsure why you needed to tell us the last one died o.o

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at 30 Jul 2009: 09:28

>>12
If you know the signs then being used isn't an issue. You don't even have to an experienced dater to see the all too obvious signs. It's just a matter of keeping your distance from the person, sitting down and really ANALYZING their actions and your feelings.

The average user, abuser, gold digger, etc will give off signs even if subtle.

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at 30 Jul 2009: 20:46

>>1
Sorry for your loss, but I have to agree that the internet; especially here (no offense please dont kill me!) is a terrible place to find people to date and have a serios relationship with.  I'm a personal believer in the idea that luck enters into the equation to a greater degree than anyone is willing to admit

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