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n44 at 12 Mar 2008: 02:24

>>25
This is the best explanation I've ever heard, ever. EVER.
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It's true, there are worser things to be into than furry porn. Like, posting goaste and train pictures on every page of a website . Or dick girls. Wait, what/

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at 12 Mar 2008: 04:53

>>25
Yeah, jerking off to cartoon animals doesn't so bad when there's stuff like scat porn on the Internet. Not cute. Not sexy. AT ALL.

I hide all my Fifi, Brandy, whatever porn on an USB flash drive secured with 448-bit encryption. Then I hide my USB flash drive! Never print out your porn. Always clear your temp and Internet history.

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at 12 Mar 2008: 11:11

Ok, that is a bit too much unless your one of the "tin hats" paranoids or you work for the CIA.

But the lesson is simple, hide and protect your stuff or don't download it at all, watch in on the Internet only. Yes it eats up bandwidth but its more secure, just remember to clear Internet history. 

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Samhuinn at 12 Mar 2008: 12:09

My parents are the sorts that would laugh and go "Whatever, son. Man, you're weird." and let it go. My parents rock. :>

However, if I had parents like that, I'd just lie. It's probably too late for that, but I would tell them that I keep this stuff around to 'surprise link' people ("hey, check out this link to this video game trailer!" and the link leads to porn), or maybe because you like to use it as an example when talking to friends about 'what's wrong with youth' these days. Tell them it grosses you out just as much as it grosses them out.

Unfortunately, I think it's too late. They probably wouldn't buy it by now.

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at 12 Mar 2008: 13:41

There really is only one main issue here: You seem to be in a social contract with your parents.  They can dictate as part of the terms of your loose contract that you not peruse furry porn while you stay in their house.  However, I do not believe that they can make a strong moral argument against furry pornography.

Sex with animals might be wrong because animals cannot at this time give informed consent (at least in my moral framework) but viewing of artistic depictions of furries or animals engaged in sexual behavior does not suffer from the same problem.  Unless they can give some sort of clear evidence that viewing the pornography violates some moral duty (I prefer theories not based on inflicting harms), it is morally neutral at worst.

So to the extent that you are in a contract they can ask that you endure any terms they give (such as not viewing furry porn) and you can say yes or no.  I doubt they are savy enough in philosophy to give any strong argument to its immorality.

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Benevolent Fur at 12 Mar 2008: 15:29

Ya, something similar happened to me, and now my mother thinks I'm gay...although thank the gods she didn't find out about my beloved yiff...i just went along with it.

Anyhow, the only thing that one could do in this situation is to either lie, or admit that you enjoy yiff. BUT: DO NOT TELL THEM ABOUT F/CHAN, DO NOT CALL IT YIFF, FURRY, OR ANYTHING ELSE REGARDING THIS PARTICULAR...FETISH...

Why? So that narrow minded individuals that could potentially ruin the furry society will never know about us.

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at 12 Mar 2008: 16:38

>>31

"Why? So that narrow minded individuals that could potentially ruin the furry society will never know about us. "

lol.

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at 12 Mar 2008: 19:07

A long time ago, my sister found my stash of porn, and that was damn embarrassing. And it was "normal, softcore" porn, of pretty blonde girls posing, not cartoony anthropomorphic animals. Haha, my friend once found my stash, too. That is why I NEVER print anything out anymore. But both my friend and my sister understood. I mean, come on, I was a teenager.

Man, I can't imagine what would happen if my friends or family found my collection of naughty Fifi pics, though. Probably get ostracized, lol.

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Friendly at 12 Mar 2008: 21:00

Nobody asked the poster here if he's a minor.  That's funny.

I have two answers.

Answer one is if you're a minor.

Then you don't belong here.  You're breaking the rules of this site.  How do you expect us to help you when you are not even legally supposed to be here?  What do you expect us to say? 

Answer two is if you are NOT a minor.

Okay.  You're an adult.  Tell them that they have no business going through your stuff behind your back, and tell them if they have a problem, they can talk to you directly.

But I suspect , having run my own forum and what not for awhile, that we're not getting the full story here.

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at 12 Mar 2008: 22:32

Keep your furpr0nz in numbered zip files and
only take them out when your alone, lol.
only

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at 12 Mar 2008: 22:49

>>31

What...? What...? Furry society? Get a grip, man.

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shadowfox at 12 Mar 2008: 23:40

Funny my parent Hang my yiffy art in a Picture frame and its Cubby art XD .. Then again my parents are furrys... And its fucking cool ^_^ But you parents need help.. When my real dad told me its wrong i got so pissed i tossed a kitchen knife at him (No joking) Lucky for him my shot missed and He says im to dangours to go near him >> I Mean gawd was just a fucking Blade not like i lit a fire >> (then again im  also verfyed by the police Unstable and potenly dangours because i got mad and kicked this guys door open)

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at 12 Mar 2008: 23:52

>>37

Sounds like somebody has anger management problems.  Protip: Next time you feel like kicking a door in, just don't. That's how the rest of us do it.

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at 12 Mar 2008: 23:59

>>38
No, it just sounds like he needs to grow the fuck up.  And oh yeah, >>37, _you're_ the one who's lucky the knife didn't hit your old man, otherwise your ass would be doing time right now.

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at 13 Mar 2008: 00:00

>>37 Your "parents" are furries?
I assume you're not talking about
your -real- parents, are you? lol.

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at 13 Mar 2008: 01:03

Ok ok ok... I've thought of the best solution.  You purchase a very very large I'm sorry cake.  Bring it into the kitchen, then invite your parents into the room.  Then, all of a sudden, a female fursuiter pops out of the cake and starts dancing!

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at 13 Mar 2008: 02:01

>>37
I lol'd, you troll so good.

10/10

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Azrael at 13 Mar 2008: 08:17

>>37 Obvious troll is obvious.

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Crazy Ivan at 13 Mar 2008: 15:30

>>14
You have given me the most unoffensive way to deal with them. Thank you. I don't think its neccecary now, though. Life has returned to, well, relative normality. I'll remember that advice for next time though.
>>13
Yes, it was my backup should I be without a computer for an extended period of time. I have learned my lesson, though. Either don't print it off, or find a better hiding spot.

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at 13 Mar 2008: 17:32

Try going to a psychiatrist and explain how you feel about it and why you don't see a problem with it. Then report back here. I'd be very interested to hear what they had to say about it.

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re:help at 14 Mar 2008: 02:47

this is what you do. say you were young and you just curoius but now you've matured and you dont like it anymore. personaly to what degree do people have to know about it. its really between you and anyone else you choose to know.some poeple find it a community thats good for them thats personal choice and i respect it, or you can be like me and find it as porn nothing more. and heres warning to every person living with anyone wh odoesnt know. dont print porn, go the extra length to hide in on your comp, mulitple folders long password on ur user account go to properties of the folder you stored it in and change the privacy. And to what degree do you need porn stashed. remeber the sites you found the pictures you like and always remeber to clear history... and oya common sence to not look at porn when there in the next room or even the same floor. its pretty simple.

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well adjusted at 14 Mar 2008: 19:42

Sorry man but your fucked :.(

I hide my shit like the previous person said and I have my own room in some dorms at an undisclosed location.

It may be too late, just say you have PORN of EVERYTHING and your a pervert. Haha its better then being labeled a yiff addict thats for sure. Say you downloaded it as a torrent file.

Your relationship I fear might be permanently ruined, i suggest staying as far away from furry as you can. Get a girlfriend, a good job and an education.

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at 14 Mar 2008: 19:48

>>48

Ditto.

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Ham at 14 Mar 2008: 21:57

I would watch random videos on youtube, just to celebrate my demise!!!!!

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at 15 Mar 2008: 00:39

ok, dont hide it from them,
dont lie, just be who you are...
your not the only person who looks at this stuff,
so let them know.
dont change because someone else doesn't like what you do.

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at 15 Mar 2008: 23:29

ignore everyone who said education.
unless you plan on moving out.
otherwise you'll join all us poor engineering bastards flipping burgers and fighting to keep our jobs while the gov tries to shoehorn the true dregs in with AA quotas and shit because indians work cheaper than us. only go with education for your own personal benefit, NEVER money/career, it just doesn't work anymore unless you're an accountant/lawyer or need security clearance. everything else is a dead-end.

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at 15 Mar 2008: 23:30

out of the country* I mean. sorry

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at 15 Mar 2008: 23:58

...Over topic is kinda... over? Everyone?

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Kane at 17 Mar 2008: 11:58

There is no reason for you to tolerate your parents actions. The porn you like is your choice and your choice alone.

If it had been me there would have been 2 ways it could go. Either they would not care and leave my room in peace, or they would do what your parents did and leave my room at gunpoint.

This kind of discrimination against furrys should never be tolerated.

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at 17 Mar 2008: 16:56

>>57

FURSECUTION!!!!exclamationmark!! w00t!!!111one

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at 17 Mar 2008: 23:47

>>58
We need the 'fursecution' equivalent of Goodwin's Law. 

Conway's Law:  "As a discussion involving anything vaguely relating to 'furry' grows longer, the probability of some insecure half-wit with victimization issues claiming discrimination against 'furry' approaches one."

"insecure half-wit" may be replaced with a more neutral "someone" just to avoid invoking the law, I suppose.  The follow-up "ZOMG FURSECUTION!!!" reply to the post that invokes the law is obligatory though to a true instance of the law. 

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Crazy Ivan at 19 Mar 2008: 02:02

Well, sorry I have not posted in a while, but ~14's advice was the best. I worked up the courage to sit down with my parents, and I had a little talk with them, and we are now at a semi-mutual agreement. They now understand that there are worse things out there, and that psychiatric evaluation is not necessary. They also get the fact that my space in my room is for me, and should be kept that way. And I have agreed to not print it out anymore, so that my little brother does not find it. Thankfully, my parents are not religious, so the talk was much easier. Although, my mom tried in the beginning to rip into a thing about it being immoral, and I just told her that it does not harm anyone, so how is it immoral? Anyhow, now that this mess is off my chest, I can go back to living my life. Thank you for your help. This has been an experience.

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at 19 Mar 2008: 05:19

Just wait until the FBI raid your hard drive. :)

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at 19 Mar 2008: 15:16

>>61
Yeah, because a bunch of folks educated in the law, and trained to  avoid personal bias interfering in their duties, are going to go ape-shit over a bunch of perfectly legal drawings.

That makes total sense, you should all live in state of perpetual fear. 

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Tylonfoxx at 19 Mar 2008: 21:46

>>17
that does not make it any less illegal

>>20
if your dad is into the same stuff, he has nothing to say in this matter. Dads usually go along with mothers that make things an issue and they make a bigger mess of it all

>>60
It's good that you got it sorted out with your parents, that experience will be with you your whole life, and it's up to you to use it to help others in the same situation.
Anyhow, it's overkill to send a kid to a psychiatrist for that ( or in this case >>60), or worse yet, get aired on dr. Phil (that's another story)

The duty of a parent is to be able to se what the fuck is wrong with their kids, NOT to get professional help for their problems. I aint a parent myself (yet), but I have a damn good idea on how i'm going to raise my future offspring, and that's the exact same way as my own parents raised me.
To anybody here, that are parents, or going to be, then sit down and talk with your children once in a while. At least arrange a weekly night with you and your children and discuss more than just the "how was school today". Go ahead and play a boardgame or something with them while you discuss whatever problem they might have.

I don't say punishment is out of the question, but at least don't make a big issue out of finding porn in your (teen) kid's room.
Don't send them to get "professional help", the most proffessional help a child (or a young man) can get is the help it can get from its parents.

Any teenager has the curiosity about sex, whether the participants have fur or not, it's completely natural...

and no, I don't have a degree in psycology or something like that... I still go to college

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at 20 Mar 2008: 00:45

>>60

Good news. I can only imagine what it would be like if I had to confront my parents with something like that.  I'm out of the house now and at college but even now it would be quite difficult.

I'm not sure about people who suggest to just "dump the 'rents"--that seems like a really juvenile and emoish response.  I love my parents and having something like that driven between us would suck. So anyway, good job :)

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at 20 Mar 2008: 01:39

What you or others could do, if you avoid the utter liability of hardcopy, is to keep it in a buried folder and if found react in horror and disgust, suggesting that there must be a virus on your computer using it as a secret file server - and frankly, I know people who have found virus' on their computer secretly hosting pirated movies and porn, so if you can pull off the lie, it's quite plausible.

Of course, -my- porn is encrypted in an assortment of files buried in the windows directories, with appropriate looking names and file types. Because there is no overkill, and you never know when a nosey friend might go snooping when you're out of the room(take note - just because you're out of the nest doesn't mean you want to leave the kink shit laying around).

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